You cannot take anything for granted. God has given a beautiful brain and its capabilities to cognitive process. You need to apply them rationally, and never let other persons views or thoughts to invade into your composure of your mind. You need to evaluate and assess if something needs to be allowed to store in your memory. The reason for this you cannot let external agents to shatter the inbuilt ecosystem of your mind. Your mind need to have plasticity only for the thoughts which would have a positive impact and contains a realistic ones. If you expose to too many variants of other persons experience and his personality, you are damaging yours and it might potentially corrode your naturally given talent. The best way to learn your self is to experience right through yourself.You can listen to others view but bear in mind as long as it makes sense. You need to protect , nusture and sustain the composure of your mind as its going to be the real capital for you to thrive and succeed i...